The Armed forces have a tradition called the "Missing Man Table" (or the missing man place setting). At military ceremonies, and even in the dining halls where Kyle eats everyday, there is a table and place set for missing and fallen service members. The single place setting is always arranged with particular items, each with its own significance:
The table is round -- to show our everlasting concern for our missing men.
The tablecloth is white -- symbolizing the purity of their motives when answering the call to duty.
The single red rose, displayed in a vase, reminds us of the life of each of the missing, and their loved ones of these Americans who keep the faith, awaiting answers.
The vase is tied with a red ribbon, symbol of our continued determination to account for our missing.
A slice of lemon on the bread plate is to remind us of the bitter fate of those captured and missing in a foreign land.
A pinch of salt symbolizes the tears endured by those missing and their families who seek answers.
The Bible represents the strength gained through faith to sustain those lost from our country, founded as one nation under God.
The glass is inverted -- to symbolize their inability to share the meal.
The chairs are empty -- because they are missing.
There is much to be grateful at Thanksgiving, like a table full of family and friends-- without any empty chairs. If your table is full of your loved ones, you are blessed. Hug them a little tighter knowing that not everyone will be home for Thanksgiving.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
